After All This Time? Always.

First of all, there are karmic partners, soulmates, and twin flames. Twin flames are not karmic partners.

Karmics are anyone you meet where you accumulate more karmic baggage from your experience with them. This karmic baggage is negative dark energy that weighs down your soul lowering it’s vibration. These are experiences that break you down, not build you up. Most relationships with people you meet will be karmic experiences.

Soulmates are relationships with anyone where the nature of the relationship is very harmonious. It is an easy relationship. You may have multiple soulmates in a lifetime.

Twin flames before the soul merge stage are opposite polarities of the same soul.

When you interact with (or even the lack of interaction), triggers both twins separately in different but similar ways. For example, the DM may reject the DF, which triggers her rejection inner wound from early childhood, so she goes away leaving him feeling abandoned, which triggers his abandonment wound.

Everytime one twin is triggered through whatever interaction, they both are. It is balanced in that way. They share the same dark energy within their soul at all times. If one twin has something to work through and heal, they both do.

Some people get confused by all of the triggering, running, and chasing. It appears karmic, but it isn’t. You are not meant to accumulate new/additional dark energy with your twin. You are meant to recognize the existing inner wound from the trigger (focus on what you feel in that moment), and heal that wound. Twin flames is a healing journey after all.

In the runner/chaser stage, it is difficult to tell whether someone is ghosting you because they are manipulating you, or because they are a twin who has been triggered. Twin will come back to each other repeatedly because they both feel a strong magnetic pull to each other that is difficult to resist. It is much deeper than simple physical attraction. You will likely, if you are the DF, feel the energetic connection. In the beginning it may be limited to maybe your mouth or maybe your hands. (I felt it in my mouth in the beginning. I called it battery tongue. My DM even in spiritual union only feels the energy sometimes. This is because the DM lags behind in ascension. They do catch up eventually).

If you are with someone who drains you energeticly, they are not your twin. Don’t confuse this with emotional triggers though. Separate your energy from your emotion. Do you feel drained by this person even when not triggered?

Your twin will absolutely make you break down emotionally because everytime we hit a rock bottom (or dark night of the soul), we have the potential for more growth as a soul. All of those dark emotions, once we acknowledge, and forgive, are released. This release allows our inner light to shine brighter, and our vibration to rise higher.

In all of the times my twin “broke my heart", he never said anything that was directly hurtful, or a personal attack. He was never verbally or physically abusive. The pain I felt was always a triggering of an already existing inner wound I had. If you are with someone who truly hurts you, or degrades you, they are not your twin. They are karmic.

Before you ever “decide” someone is your twin flame, you should experience a spiritual awakening first. That is a big indicator of a real twin flame experience.

In my case, my spirit guides told me I would meet him by telling me his full name and showing me a vision of him six months before we even met. Psychic experiences before you meet your twin, and increased psychic experiences after meeting your twin, are common.